Moving On

Have you ever been in a situation where a relationship had become defunct? Have you ever said "It's your loss" to another person? That perspective is wrong. When a relationship ends, both parties lose. If the relationship has not been healthy, you may not lose much good. However, a loss still exists. There was a reason you invested in this person and they invested in you. To ignore a loss of a person in your life is to deny yourself a grieving period that allows a healthy recovery. Covering something up doesn't deny the fact that it existed. It only allows it to continue to aggitate until it gets proper attention and healing.